Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Post Gatsby Wrap-up

*This is a follow-up article to 1926-2013: The Great Gatsby

GATSBY, WHAT GATSBY?

Almost a week has passed since I watched Baz Luhrmann's adaptation of "The Great Gatsby" and I am still in awe by it, the film literally took my breath away --  its not a film its an experience.

Even if your not a fan of Luhrmann's previous works  (Strictly Ballroom, Romeo & Juliet or Moulin Rouge)  I recommend you see this film while its still in theaters. Luhrmann brings Fitzgerald's Jazz age literary masterpiece to life, he makes it approachable and contemporary and still manages to stay true to the novel.


*** SPOILER ALERT ***
If you have not seen Baz Luhrmann's Great Gatsby stop reading this post please - I'd hate to spoil anything for ya... just promise you'll come back and read it afterwards, kay? :-)




UNDERSTANDING GATSBY

Luhrmann researched all aspects of The Great Gatsby tale and immersed himself in the author's life as well. Such attention to detail helped Luhrmann and Craig Pierce write an adaptation that delves deep into the Jazz Age story and the psychology of the characters so when their script deviates from the novel its still authentically "Fitzgerald."

Ginevra King

FUN FACT 
It is well known that the Daisy Buchanan character was based on the romance Fitzgerald had with Chicago socialite Ginevra King. King left Fitzgerald because he was penniless and instead married a rich tycoon. Knowing this Luhrmann had Carey Mulligan read all the love letters King wrote to Fitzgerald so she was able to draw on them when embodying Daisy.






THE WALL STREET CONNECTION 

(today and yesterday)

Love, money, excess, corruption, Long Island and Wall Street are just some themes and locales found in the Gatsby parable. Published in 1925 "Gatsby" was a work of fiction that was way ahead of its time - hindsight being 20/20 its easy to make the connection between the decadent drenched pages of Gatsby, the Stock Market crash years later (1929) and ultimately the Great Depression.

I grew up in close proximity to Wall Street, its not only the financial capital of the world its a metaphor for our society. Sadly, we have yet to learn from our past mistakes, the recent subprime mortgage crisis put the US economy in the worse recession since the Great Depression.

(I wrote about this subject in an earlier post: ENTITLEMENT: WALL STREETS KOOL AID)


BACK TO GATSBY

Baz brought every character to life, he even made the first person narrative of the novel work.  I particularly liked the added element of Nick Carraway being in an asylum for Alcoholism -- it helped bring the character into focus for me.

Towards the end of the movie I felt hung over - and not because I went to a 21 and over showing and was sipping a Negroni and Absinthe while watching the film - no - instead the film was designed to leave us with a sense of overindulgence.

That's me dressed in 20's attire,
sipping a Negroni outside the theater





Luhrmann overloads the senses to the point of the extreme, when Gatsby is about to lose his prize (Daisy Buchanan) the shift of energy is as startling as having warm bed sheets ripped off your body on a cold winters morning.









In a word Baz Luhrmann's "Gatsby" is visceral. All the performances in the film are expertly directed to take the audience on a creative, emotional roller coaster ride. This adaptation separates itself from all other's because it is not trying to remain "faithful" to the text; Luhrmann did not handcuff himself to Fitzgerald's prose instead he built on top of it. As a result the viewer actually discovers more about the characters than that which is held in the pages of the novel.

Baz Luhrmann's "Gatsby" is an invitation to visit one of the most exciting times in the early 20th century and I for one am thrilled I attended the soiree.






FUN FACT
Luhrmann's adaptation has generated interest in the the novel, it sold more copies in the last week than it did in Fitzgerald's whole lifetime.










visit some of my boards dedicated to Gatsby
1920's Love Affair


Wednesday, May 8, 2013

1926 - 2013: The Great Gatsby



One of my all-time favorite novels is "The Great Gatsby." The first time reading it I was completely mesmerized by F. Scott Fitzgerald's poetic writing style. He draws the reader into the roaring 20's (which is my favorite era), into the lives of all the characters and the love story between Gatsby and Daisy.  And I will also admit to being thrilled that this beautiful tale was set in my hometown of New York.


MY LOVE OF THE 1920's


Photo of me in a production of "CABARET" style is still very 20's

                                                                           
I so was a flapper/showgirl in a past life...


I'm often inspired by the 20's style. This is a photo of me and 
my hubby at a wedding we attended


FROM NOVEL TO SCREEN

The beloved book written by F. Scott Fitzgerald has been adapted for the screen numerous times - to date versions extend from the Silent screen era to the present day computer generated, green screen, 3D,
Baz Luhrmann extravaganza.

I recently found a trailer for the first ever screen adaptation of "The Great Gatsby." It is the silent movie version and was released just one year after the book was published. Also, adding to the cool factor of this film is that it was actually produced during Fitzgerald's lifetime. Sadly, the actual silent film is believed to be lost but the trailer still exists... ENJOY:

1926 - SILENT SCREEN VERSION (trailer)


1926 Poster with Lois Wilson


















1949 -  this version embodies those classic 40's films. 

(Alan Ladd stars as Gatsby and Betty Field is Daisy)




1974 -  starring Robert Redford and Mia Farrow
(Produced in the era filled with 15 minute long songs - this trailer is a bit drawn out but still enjoyable)  



























2000 - The Great Gatsby TV movie
(Toby Stephens as Gatsby, Mira Sorvino as Daisy and Paul Rudd as Nick Carraway. Personally, I don't think its a very good adaptation but wanted to share a scene from it)




And that finally brings me to what I anticipate will be the BEST adaptation of F. Scott's master piece, (dare I say a masterpiece of a masterpiece... sorry I'm giddy with anticipation)

2013 - Baz Luhrmann's "Great Gatsby"



The trailer to Baz Luhrmann's "Gatsby" looks incredible!!!
(Leonardo DiCaprio stars as Gatsby, Carey Mulligan as Daisy and Toby Maguire as Nick Carraway) 



I intend to update this post after watching the movie. I am going to a 21 and over screening on Friday night - that means I can also enjoy a fancy cocktail while watching my favorite novel brought to life by the uber creative Luhrmann and some of today's most talented actors and actresses. 





MY PREDICTION
I will go on record and say that I predict this version will be my all-time favorite and that I will go see it a couple times in the theater.  I also foresee many Oscar nominations will come from this master piece and while I haven't seen it yet I know DiCaprio will undoubtedly give yet another Oscar worthy performance and maybe he'll finally bring home Oscar gold with this performance. 


Read my follow-up article here: Post Gatsby Wrap-up





Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Going the Distance


"It really don't matter if I lose this fight... 

all I wanna do is go the distance." ~ Rocky (1976)




There are some films that strike a deep chord in the hearts and minds of audiences,  "Rocky" and all the subsequent sequels are among those films (well, with the exception of Rocky 5).

Each movie in the "Rocky" franchise has the ability to stand alone as a film, which is a testament to Sylvester Stallone as a writer and as an actor. With Rocky Balboa Stallone created an endearing lovable loser character that everyone could not only identify with but also root for. The success of the franchise is due in part to the raw, undiluted brilliance of first movie, "Rocky."

GOING THE DISTANCE

One of my absolute favorite scenes from the first film is when Rocky reveals to Adrian his goal for the fight against Apollo Creed. In that scene he declares, "all I wanna do is go the distance." Its such a humble goal - Rocky doesn't say he wants to win, in fact he doesn't think he can win but if he can go the distance with the Champ in the ring this would give his whole life new meaning. 

On the surface this goal appears simplistic but in fact its grandiose and sophisticated. Rocky is telling Adrian that it doesn't matter if he loses the fight he wants to find out if he has the goods, he wants to find out if he's talented enough to stay in the ring with the World Champ and hold his own.

To me its an endearing moment that grounds not only the character but the audience as well. It serves to propel both (equally) into belief. Up to this point in the movie Rocky is likable loser and this scene creates a manageable goal for everyone to get behind and its this that conjures Rocky's trajectory towards victory.


I found the scene on-line, take a look and see for yourself. 


THE MAKING OF ROCKY

I watched a documentary recently on the making of ROCKY and in it Stallone explains how the studio actually wanted to cut this scene. They wanted to save money but Stallone knew that this was a pivotal scene in the movie and fought for it. Eventually the studio allowed him to shoot the scene but didn't give him much lead way - he had to film the scene in one take.

To me the movie and the character would not have been the same without this scene. In this scene the audience gets to experience Rocky being unabashedly honest and vulnerable. I think these are the traits that resonated with audiences back in 1976 when the film was first released and its was continues to appeal to audiences today... THAT and also the fact that he's Italian :)

ROCKY... ON BROADWAY

There is so much love and appreciation for the first "Rocky" movie that it has recently been turned into Musical. It opened in Germany to rave reviews and will make its Broadway debut at New York's Winter Garden in February 2014.

Here's a trailer for the show:








Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Feature Article: Blue Ribbon Ambition

As I look back on the feature articles I've written I can't help but to notice some commonalities. While each person is unique and involved in totally different professions each has a sense of purpose and fulfillment in their lives.  They each are doing what they love to do.

This month I'm excited to introduce you to Jessica Smyth. I met Jessica a couple months ago and as we all do when meeting someone new I asked the usual conventional questions. When Jessica informed me that she was an equestrian I literally did a double take, I mean its not every day you meet a woman in her twenties that rides horses competitively.




I have had a love of all animals my whole life but horses have a special place in my heart. I have an intense love and respect for horses -- they are incredibly beautiful and complex creatures. Their honesty, presence, and power simply take my breath away.


ATTENDING A COMPETITION

My husband and I have never attended an equestrian competition before so when she invited us to her next competition we jumped at the chance.

Watching all the riders warm up their horses I had no idea what I was in for. As I heard the announcer introduce her I watched as Jessica entered the track riding her trainers horse Aslan. She was extremely poised, and to me, the whole event looked so chic -- it was like a Ralph Lauren ad come to life. 

I was mesmerized by what Jessica and Aslan did on that track, it was like watching a beautiful ballet. Jessica is an amazingly skilled equestrian who competes in the highly competitive equestrian sport called "Dressage" (pronounced: dress-ˈsäj)

WHAT IS DRESSAGE? 

Dressage is a french term that basically translates to training.

"The International Equestrian Federation defines Dressage 
as the highest expression of horse training, where horse and rider 
are expected to perform from memory a series of predetermined movements."

To give you an idea of what it looks like, here's a video of Jessica performing with Wester Aikema's Nico, back in 2007.

video


If you would like to see a competition here's a list of Jessica's upcoming events:

April 25-28  DEL MAR NATIONAL HORSE SHOW
May 23 - 26 DRESSAGE AT FLINTRIDGE
August (dates TBD) COOL AUGUST NIGHTS


And now, it's my pleasure to introduce you to Jessica Smyth and...


THE WORLD OF DRESSAGE 


                                                 Photo Credit: Lisa Smyth 
Jessica  riding Lorenzo at Prix St. George 2006    
                                         
Where were you born and raised? 

I grew up here in Los Angeles, in Sunland. It’s a little suburb nestled up against the Los Angeles Crest National Forest.

When did you begin riding horses?

My first pony ride was in Munich, Germany. My family lived there for two years when I was very young. I think I was about 3 in the pictures from the “Pony Hoff.” But when we moved back to California, I started taking lessons at the Los Angeles Children’s Riding Center in Sun Valley, and I was probably 6 or 7 at that time. 

What made you want to start competing?

Competition is sort of a natural progression in riding- sure you can take lessons and learn to stay on, but that only takes a few months. If you have been riding for years, then typically the trainer will start signing up the little kids to go to small shows. So I did small shows, jumping over tiny fences when I was a kid. But I started to really compete and try to qualify for championships when I moved over to my current barn, Rancho Tujunga in 1998. Then, when I started training with Dory Breneman in 2003, she really encouraged me to look at what I wanted to accomplish. She has tremendous faith in me as a competent rider, so with her guidance I bought a great horse and took my riding much more seriously, focusing on moving up levels and really pushing myself to be a better and more competitive rider.

How many competitions have you taken part in so far in your career? 

Tons! With Dory, we typically go to at least five competitions a year. We have our go-to shows, at venues we really enjoy, like the next one in Del Mar, or Cool August Nights at the LA Equestrian Center. But in any given year we can go to 5-10 shows. It all depends on the experience of the horse, rider or combination, and how well you score, if you qualify for championships with the necessary scores early in the year, or if you feel like you need more experience. I absolutely love to compete and would go to a horse show every two weeks if I could afford to- but competing gets to be very expensive. 

I met the horse you're currently riding, Aslan, at your last competition and it seems to me that a big part of any equestrian sport is the connection between the rider and horse, it seems like a deep relationship has to be cultivated - can you explain how you met the horse you're currently riding and the steps it took to create the necessary bond you have with him?

I met Aslan 8 years ago when Dory first acquired him. At that point, I had my own horse, Lorenzo, and was a working student for Dory. Aslan was pretty wild back then, and I really didn’t do too much with him, he needed some serious retraining, so about as much as I did with him then was brush him and feed him! But I was lucky enough for Dory to let me start riding him when I moved back here this past fall. By now, Dory has put 8 years of training on him- and he is really fun to ride! When she offered to let me start competing him this year, I was really excited. I went from just exercising him once or twice a week to riding him 5 or 6 days a week, and taking anywhere from 3-5 lessons on him. 

The time in the saddle is of course really important to start building a bond with any horse, but there is also a necessary level of carrot feeding and brushing involved! He and I are definitely still learning about each other, but now that we have a couple of shows under our belt together, I feel pretty confident riding him. We have had some challenging days in the barn, in the show ring, out on the trail in the mountains- all key points where we have had to kind of look each other in the eye and figure out how to go forward. What I am really happy with is how I can ask for more from him, and instead of quitting, he really tries for me. That's when you know you have some sort of bond- when the horse trusts in you and comes to each work out with a positive attitude. Eight years ago, asking him to just walk next to you was too challenging and he would quit. He has definitely come a long way.


Photo credit: Lisa Smyth

Photo of Jessica riding Aslan for the first time, June 2012

What disciplines do you currently compete in?

I solely compete in Dressage. When I was younger I did some Hunter/Jumpers, and then I also did a few years in competitive Quadrille. But my focus turned to Dressage 10 years ago and I really haven’t looked back. It’s one of those sports that isn’t necessarily very exciting to watch, but it is so challenging to do, mentally and physically for both the horse and rider. Once you start to understand all the really subtle aspects of Dressage, then you can really appreciate it as a sport. 

I love that everyday I can focus on some minute detail of my position, or the horses balance or tempo, and can accomplish something different or better than the day before. I also love that no matter how good you get, you can always improve. That can be disheartening to some people, that there isn’t a clear black and white designation between good and bad, because the sport is judged so subjectively. But that is the challenge to me, and I really enjoy it. 


My Jumper friends tease me for being a Dressage Queen- we wear white pants, shadbelly coats and top hats, and essentially make a horse prance around. Meanwhile they are galloping around going over fences. But I know they aren’t just pointing a horse at a fence and hanging on for dear life, and they know I’m not just sitting pretty on a prancing horse, there really is a lot more to it! 

Are there any disciplines you currently don't compete in that you're interested in pursuing in the future and on the flip side, are there any that you're not interested in competing in?

Whenever I watch some Cross Country- it is like off road jumping, where they gallop full speed across fields, through ponds, over jumps- it looks like a crazy amount of fun! I would love to give that a try. There are so many disciplines, I wouldn’t necessarily write any of them off, but at this point in my life, I am not interested in starting all over in a new sport. It would be like a baseball player deciding to play basketball one day. It’s still a sport where you run around with a ball, but to compete at a professional level, you just don’t see it happen too often. Same thing with riding, at the professional level there isn’t too much crossover between disciplines. I can stay on pretty much any horse, but I would probably be jumping over fences or chasing cows while trying to make the horse prance around! 

Photo Credit: Lisa Smyth

I am an actress so I understand the rehearsal process as a means of preparation for a performance. Dressage seems similar to a performance to me, would that be an accurate correlation? 

Absolutely! In fact, Dressage is really about trying to make it look like the horse is dancing, and showing that harmonious connection between the horse and rider, like a real performance art. Every day when I ride, I work on certain basics, like getting the horse using his whole body, tapping into certain muscle groups, being flexible, balanced, strong, relaxed. But leading up to a show, you have to put all the pieces of your training together, and showcase them in the 6 minutes you have in the show ring. that's the difficult part- putting all the pieces together and having a fluid performance. With Aslan, we rehearse our test forward and back several times, figuring out the places where we need to be more focused, more relaxed, have more energy, or be more prepared. there are so many variables to work with, it is very similar to doing a dress rehearsal before a play- sure you have learned all the lines, but can you put it all together on the spot?
You are gearing up for a competition at the end of the month -  do you have any specific routines that you follow leading up to your competitions, what's your "rehearsal" process? 

For me, it is really getting into that mental state of being at a competition. Riding at home is very different from being at the show grounds. Often, I have the arena to myself when I am riding at home, but at the show, you are in a warm up with 20 other horses! And there are people watching! And there is just a buzz at a competition. I love that, I feed off of the buzz. Some people get nervous having to perform in front of a crowd, but that is what gets me really focused and what makes me a better rider. So leading up to the show, I try to recreate that adrenaline I get when I know there are people watching, and when I know that there are other really talented riders all around me. Aside from the mental preparation, I also rehearse the actual test, or pattern, I will have to ride. That week before the show is all about really dialing in on the finer points I want to improve on, or those subtle things I want to make sure are just right. Aslan also gets a ridiculous amount of bath time leading up to the show-much to his dismay- in order to make him as sparkling clean as possible! Performance at a show is important, but your turnout is too!

What was the strangest or funniest incident you've experienced?

The funniest incident would have to be when my pony, Crystal, decided to lay down in the middle of the show ring and roll in the dirt, with me on her. I was 11 or 12 years old, and I was so angry with that pony! Of course it was all caught on camera by the videographer, with a pan across spectators including my mom, who was singing the purina dog chow jingle, and my friend whose jaw dropped to the ground. Crystal was not turned into any dog chow, but that was a real learning experience for me! The strange thing was that I showed Aslan this past November and I went to pick up my video after the show- the videographer remember me from that day 13 years ago! He said to me, “Jessica Smyth- weren’t you the girl with that pony Crystal who rolled at a show one time?” Out of all the horse and rider combos he has filmed, it was funny to know that one stood out to him! 

What advice would you give other women interested in pursuing a career as a competitive equestrian?

You have to love competing, of course! Because you aren’t going to have a great ride every time, and it is really hard work, but you have to look at every ride as a single experience and as a part of the whole. There are going to be problems with each ride, but there will also be improvements. It is just important to remain focused on your goals, and not to get discouraged by bad scores, or embarrassing moments. You just have to look at everything as a learning experience, and no matter if you get a blue ribbon or if you don’t place, look at what you learned from the ride. But I am really just setting out on my own career as a competitive rider- so I am still looking for advice. I am so lucky to have a great coach like Dory who pushes me to be a better rider, but also is quick to point out the positive stuff when things get tough. 


Photo Credit: Lisa Smyth

What do you love most about what you do?

I love the rush I get from going into the show ring- its one of those do or die moments. You either have your stuff together at that moment or you don’t. It's what every minute of your training leads up to- and it is amazing. But I really just love the connection with the horse- he is your team mate and if you can’t develop a good relationship, it really doesn't matter how trained he is or how practiced of a rider you are. Horses are such kind and intelligent animals, I feel so lucky to spend so much time with them everyday.

What is the best thing that has happened to you in 2012?

I came to LA for a weekend to visit and I went to the stable and Dory threw me on Aslan and gave me a lesson. I had put down my horse, Lorenzo, in 2010 after he had gotten really sick, and from that time until the lesson with Dory, I hadn’t gotten on a horse. I was out of shape to say the least! I couldn’t walk for the next week I was so sore! But it was a key moment when, even though my legs felt like they were going to fall off, I was happier being on that horse and getting my butt kicked by Dory in that lesson, than I had been for two years. I realized that riding was really a huge part of who I am and that I had to get back into it. The next week I called Dory and told her I was moving back. Things just all fell in place- I got back to LA and her working student had just moved, so she had work for me to do and horses for me to ride, and it just felt so good to be back at the barn everyday!

What is your biggest wish/goal for 2013?

My goal is really just to qualify for championships with Aslan and not to be too embarrassingly beaten by the other riders I am competing against. Because of my age, I am no longer a designated “Young Rider” so I am in the next division up- the Open Division. The competition is tough. At the last show, there were 3 former Olympians in my class. These are my peers now, so I would like to be able to prove myself as a respectable competitor by the end of the year. 

What are the upcoming competitions that you will be in? 

I will be competing in the Del Mar National Show this coming week, and it is one of my favorite shows! It is huge, everyone is there, its just really exciting. Then we come back home, have a few weeks and then go to Dressage at Flintridge at the end of May, and then will have a few months off until Cool August Nights at the end of August. That's another fun show because you ride at night instead of early in the morning, and it always seems to get the horses a little more excited! 

What one thing would you do if you knew that you could not fail?

I am doing it. Being a competitive rider is what I want to do. If I knew I couldn’t fail, that would be nice I suppose, but honestly, because I know that I can, I work harder every day, I stay focused Knowing that I am not already the best out there is what motivates and inspires me. 

If someone were to describe you in one sentence what would they say? 

“Jessica goes after what she wants until she gets it.” 

It's the end of a great week and you have some free time on your hands - what do you do?

I never pass up a good cocktail with friends, or reading a book by the pool!



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FACILITY WHERE JESSICA RIDES RANCHO TUJUNGA


Wednesday, April 17, 2013

For the Hero's in Boston

April 15, 2013

Its Patriots Day, a civic holiday that commemorates the first battles of the American Revolution. It is celebrated and observed yearly with the Boston Marathon. By now you know what comes next... what was to be a moment of celebration for the on-lookers and all the runners instead turned into horror, explosions and blood shed.

Martin Richard has been identified as the 8-year-old boy who was one of the three people killed by one of the blasts. He and his family lived in the Boston neighborhood of Dorchester. Martin was running up to the finish line to congratulate his dad (Bill Richard) on completing the race. His mother, Denise, sustained critical injuries and his sister, Jane, suffered extensive injury to one of her legs. 

There were 176 injuries. 3 deaths. There were countless number of heroes that day and to me Martin Richard is among those heroes.

A SIGN OF HOPE

Martin Richard had recently participated in a peace rally at his school... this is a photo of him and a sign he made - his message is now ever so more poignant: "No More Hurting People" followed by the word "Peace."

© Lucia Brawley/Facebook
One of the other hero's of the day was initially known as " The Hero in a Cowboy Hat" - his name is Carlos Arredondo. 


©Charles Krupa/AP
Carlos Arredondo, originally from Costa Rica immigrated to the US illegally. He had two sons. One son was killed while serving in Iraq, his other son committed suicide shortly after America pulled out of Iraq. After his son's death's Arredondo became an outspoken peace activist.

Standing at the finish line of the Boston Marathon, handing out American flags in honor of his sons and those lives lost in the fight against terror Arredondo found himself in the center of the explosions.  Instead of running to safety he ran towards the explosions in an effort to help those who were wounded.

ALL THOSE QUESTIONS

Focusing on why this happened puts needless attention on those responsible for this horrible crime - instead of letting hate overwhelm you, instead of spending hours musing who is behind this act of terrorism I offer that it is far more beneficial to put our focus on the heroes of the day. 

THE HEROES OF THE DAY

As President Obama stated on Tuesday (4/16/13)

"What the world saw yesterday in the aftermath of the explosions were stories of heroism and kindness, and generosity and love:  Exhausted runners who kept running to the nearest hospital to give blood, and those who stayed to tend to the wounded, some tearing off their own clothes to make tourniquets.  The first responders who ran into the chaos to save lives.  The men and women who are still treating the wounded at some of the best hospitals in the world, and the medical students who hurried to help, saying “When we heard, we all came in.”  The priests who opened their churches and ministered to the hurt and the fearful.  And the good people of Boston who opened their homes to the victims of this attack and those shaken by it.
So, if you want to know who we are, what America is, how we respond to evil — that’s it.  Selflessly.  Compassionately.  Unafraid. "

HOPE

Let us all continue to glean inspiration and encouragement from the outpouring of compassion and acts bravery shown on Monday. Soon after the explosions this was projected on the wall of the Brooklyn Academy of Music... I whole heartily believe in its message:

My prayers go out to everyone affected by this senseless act.



Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Success & the Pursuit of A Well Rounded Life

So, sometimes I sit down to write my weekly blog and I know what I'm going to write about. Usually by the time I sit down at my computer and put my fingers on the keys to type I've done the necessary research and compiled all the necessary info and photos I'd need to tell the story BUT this week was different.

After spending 5 days in Monterey I came back and I had a bit of writers block. Well, actually it was writers block fueled by indecision, I could not decide on this weeks subject.  I wrestled with the idea of sharing with you guys my experience in Monterey.

Monterey at one time served as both the Spanish and Mexican capital of California from the late 1700's to early 1800's and is celebrated as one of the most historic towns on the West Coast.

It was a relaxing vacay and writers block aside, I returned home inspired and invigorated but I could not settle on what to write about for this weeks post... I mean, while in Monterey I did find out some really cool, fun facts like:

There is a huge Italian community there, specifically a huge Sicilian community. In fact, Pietro Ferranti immigrated to the U.S. in 1899 from Sicily and he is recognized as a founder of the fishing and canning industries in Monterey.

As I delighted in finding out about my fellow paisans.  I mentally toyed with the idea of posting the photos I took of the Cannery Worker Houses - some of the only remaining structures that housed the cannery workers.

Cannery Worker Houses










 I was so fascinated to find out that the Sicilian women and men of the time worked together as partners. These women resisted their husbands objections and worked alongside their men in the sardine canneries -- this was back in the early 1900's.






I then thought about sharing the photo I took of "California's First Theatre"



It was built by Jack Swan in 1846 as a lodging house for weary sailors. It was first used as a theater when the Army officers from Colonel Stevenson's 1st Regiment produced plays to make some cash - the first nights receipts totaled $500.00, that was in 1850... leave it to us New Yorkers to get our hustle on :)

My indecisiveness waned as I began to relive all the delicious meals I had while there.  My Monterey travels took me to this beautiful place: Restaurant 1833


Like every thing else in Monterey this place is also historic. The house was built in... you guessed it 1833. Originally it was built as a single room adobe by Benjamin Day but was purchased in 1837 by James Stokes.

James Stokes was a sailor and convinced everyone that he was a pharmacist and a doctor. Stokes was not an actual doctor, his medical knowledge equated to basic first aid. His home became the site of California's first pharmacy, its believed that many people died because of his "pharmaceutical" enterprise. After his death the place changed hands many times, one of the shacks on the property held the printing press for California's first newspaper and it is said that John Steinbeck penned "The Pearl" here as well.

I also enjoyed drinks and live music at The Sardine Factory...


scrumptious Vegetarian meals like this delicious Gnocchi dish at        Bistro Moulin



I had the pleasure of meeting the owner of Cafe Fina, Dominick Mercurio, when Me, the hubs and our furry baby, Scarlett stopped in for a bite to eat.


And each night we watched the sunset at the beautiful                     


So, I guess in the end I did share some stories from my trip to Monterey. It is a little bit of a departure from the stories I usually write for my blog but on second thought, maybe not.

It can become very easy to slip into a routine when striving towards a dream. I know from my own experience I tend to get so focused on attaining the goal I set that I don't allow myself to take my eye off the finish line to look up and enjoy my life -- where ever I happen to be at that moment.

Success is something that we each have to define for ourselves but as we each strive towards what ever goal we've set for ourselves, we must remember to also take care of ourselves and nurture a well rounded life; taking time to relax and enjoy yourself is a big part of it.


Me and the Hubs - at sunset (Inn At Spanish Bay)


Wednesday, April 3, 2013

What would you do?

Imagine that it is September 26, 1983. It is at the height of the Cold War, just weeks after the Soviet Military erroneously shot down Korean Airliner 007 killing all 269 passengers and crew on board, including a sitting member in US Congress.

The world is tense awaiting President Reagan's next move.

Now further imagine you're name is Stanislav Petrov and you are a Lieutenant Colonel in the Soviet Air Defense Forces. On this night you are called in to cover the command center for the Oko nuclear early-warning system.  This is the system that would warn if there ever was a nuclear missile attack by the United States and in the event of an attack a counter-attach would ensue.

Its just after midnight on September 26, 1983 and the unthinkable happens... suddenly the computers alarms go off signaling that there are missiles heading right toward your country. What would you do?

Well, this did happen and what the real Lt Petrov did that night saved us from a nuclear war.

When the alarm sounded the monitors indicated that there were a total of 5 missiles in the air heading towards the Soviet Union. Lt. Petrov felt that the system was new and in his view couldn't be completely trusted so he ordered the computer to be reset and watched and waited for his intuitive hunch to be confirmed.

While waiting ANOTHER alarm sounded.

This being the second alarm Lt. Petrov had to inform his superiors of the incidents and with no hard evidence supporting his decision he also informed them that he thought it was a false alarm.  After hanging up from his superiors he sat watching the monitors as the circumstances unfolded.


“I reported it was a false alarm, despite what the screens were showing. I just believed in my judgment and experience.” 
- LT. Stanislav Petrov


In the end, Lt. Petrov suspicions were correct, the computers detection system was malfunctioning. The false alarm was created by a rare alignment of sunlight on high-altitude clouds.

Could you imagine if Lt. Petrov was not on duty that night? What if you were there in his place - would you have the strength of character to stand your ground and make the choice he did?

Okay, so we will probably never be in the same exact situation that Lt. Petrov found himself in and though our life situations may never equal the magnitude of his that fateful night in 1983 there are some insights we can glean from his story.

We can each walk away with a greater understanding of what it means to stand our ground and trust our intuition, no matter the  apparent evidence to the contrary... it may just be like those high-altitude clouds that night in September 1983, creating false evidence.

It takes an enormous amount of courage to sit in the darkness of uncertainty but you have one life to live - live it from your truth and listen to your own intuition.

If you would like to find out more information on Lt. Stanislav Petrov a documentary titled "The Man Who Saved The World" was just released in January, here's the trailer: